Helsinki, Finland
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Conflict Without Blowups: The 3-Step Script for Calm Conversations

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Europe/Helsinki (GMT+2)
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Helsinki Central Library OodiTöölönlahdenkatu 4, 00100 Helsinki
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Conflict Without Blowups: The 3-Step Script for Calm Conversations

Conflict Without Blowups: The 3-Step Script for Calm Conversations takes place on Tue, 24 Nov 2026 at 9.00 (GMT+2) at Helsinki Central Library Oodi in Helsinki, Finland. Entry is free; the listing is on Eventbrite.

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This event teaches a faith-rooted 3-step script for handling marriage conflicts without defensiveness.

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Tired of the same fight? Learn a faith-rooted 3-step script to raise real issues calmly — without defensiveness or shutdown in your marriage Are you tired of having the same argument every month? You love God. You love your spouse. So why does the same argument keep coming back? You believe in forgiveness, unity, and peace — but somehow, a simple conversation still ends in defensiveness, shutdown, or silence. And afterward, the guilt hits: I know better than this. Why is this so hard? Here's the truth most people miss: you don't have a communication problem. You have a safety problem. When a conversation feels like a threat, your nervous system takes over before your values do. That's not a character flaw — it's biology. But there's a way to speak that bypasses that trigger entirely. This high-impact 60-minute live masterclass will teach you a simple, repeatable 3-step script to raise real issues clearly and gently — without triggering blowups or shutdowns. The framework is faith-informed and practically taught, so whether you've been married 2 years or 22, you'll leave with a tool you can use the same day. ✅ Attend alone or as a couple ✅ Practical and usable immediately ✅ Live Q&A included — not recorded What You Will Learn: The 3-Step Script This workshop is dedicated to mastering a simple 3-part framework that helps you: • Start with emotional safety • Communicate your needs without blame • End the conversation with teamwork instead of tension You’ll leave with a ready-to-use script that helps your spouse hear you without feeling attacked — so your feedback builds connection instead of conflict. Key Takeaways (in 60 Minutes) ✅ Mindset Shift: The “Right vs. Relationship Test” — when to speak vs. when to wait ✅ Timing Triage: The H.A.L.T. check — how to avoid starting hard conversations emotionally depleted ✅ Step 1 — The Soft Start: How to open with connection and reduce defensiveness ✅ Step 2 — The Core Message: The I-Statement formula — speak your truth without blame or criticism ✅ Step 3 — The Collaborative Close: Turn complaints into shared solutions and real change ✅ Handling Pushback: What to do when your spouse gets defensive without escalating into a fight This is not theory. It’s a practical tool you can use immediately to start building a healthier, less reactive marriage. This session is for: ✔️ Married or engaged couples who are tired of circular arguments ✔️ Individuals who want to bring up real issues without triggering defensiveness ✔️ Christian husbands and wives who value peace but don’t want to suppress their voice ✔️ Couples who are not in crisis — but feel the emotional tension building ✔️ High-functioning adults who are ready to take responsibility for how they show up This is not for: ❌ People looking to prove their spouse is wrong ❌ Couples dealing with active abuse or addiction (professional therapy may be more appropriate) ❌ Anyone unwilling to apply what they learn Stop fighting the same fight. Start solving the problem. Register now to secure your spot!

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Organizer
Ade Sobanjo
Time zone
GMT+2
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When
Tue, 24 Nov 2026 · 9.00 (GMT+2)
Where
Helsinki Central Library Oodi
Address
Töölönlahdenkatu 4, 00100 Helsinki
Price
Free
Genre
114/class, training, or workshop

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When is Conflict Without Blowups: The 3-Step Script for Calm Conversations?
Tue, 24 Nov 2026 at 9.00 GMT+2.
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Entry is free.
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Helsinki Central Library Oodi, Töölönlahdenkatu 4, 00100 Helsinki, Helsinki, Finland.
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