Children of Divorce: What Children Carry Between Homes

If you don't see the family system influencing the child, are you really seeing the whole child? 3 Ethics | 1.5 Boundaries | 1.5 Suicide CE A whole year of CE’s for IDOPL in one place, live, with lunch! Children of Divorce: What Children Carry Between HomesStepfamilies are one of the fastest-growing family forms, yet clinical practice, assessment models, and ethical decision-making are often rooted in assumptions developed for nuclear families. This course explores the ethical risks that arise when counselors apply nuclear family frameworks to stepfamily systems, including misdiagnosis, misaligned interventions, boundary confusion, and unintentional harm. Participants will examine key structural and developmental differences between stepfamilies and nuclear families, with particular attention to ethical principles such as beneficence, nonmaleficence, competence, and cultural responsiveness. Through case examples and practical discussion, clinicians will learn to identify common clinical pitfalls and adapt their conceptualization, assessment, and treatment approaches to more accurately and ethically serve stepfamily clients. This NBCC course is designed for licensed counselors, therapists, social workers, and other helping professionals seeking to strengthen ethical competence when working with diverse family systems. Learning Objectives • Ethics Identify when children of divorce and the adults co-parenting or stepparenting them are impacted by high-conflict two-home dynamics that require specialized or higher levels of care, and determine ethical referral options that protect the child across households. • Differentiate between two-home systems organized around love versus loyalty, and assess how loyalty-based dynamics escalate co-parenting and stepfamily conflict, increasing risk of clinician triangulation and court involvement. • Boundaries Apply ethical and legal boundaries when working with children of divorce and their co-parenting and stepparenting adults, including managing shared parental rights, consent, and access to treatment information across two homes. • Suicide Risk (Two-Home Families) Recognize suicide risk indicators affecting children of divorce and the co-parenting and stepparenting adults around them, and implement safety planning that remains effective across household transitions. What we do not understand about two-home family systems can unintentionally place children and families at greater risk, especially when well-intended clinical care treats these systems as if they function like nuclear families.