- When
- America/Los_Angeles (PST)
- Where
- Négociant Winery1263 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103
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Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55) takes place on Wed, Dec 9, 2026 at 6:30 PM (PST) at Négociant Winery in San Diego, CA. Tickets are $28.52 + on Eventbrite.
About this event
Gay Speed Dating San Diego hosts a speed dating event for gay men ages 35-55 at Négociant Winery in Hillcrest on December 9, featuring ice breakers, mini-dates, and open social mingling with wine available.
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Dating for gay men, ages 35-55. December 9th at Négociant Winery in Hillcrest. 10+ mini-dates, ice breakers and open social. Gay Speed Dating San Diego has created 387 total connections to date! 90 romantic matches 💛 ! 297 platonic matches 💜 ! Physical attraction on a dating app does not compare to hearing someone's laugh, noticing the energy they bring into a room, or having a real conversation about compatibility. Gay Speed Dating San Diego is built around giving gay men the space to create organic chemistry. No headless torsos, no egos behind keyboards, and no algorithm telling you who you should like. You will have three ways to meet other guys while enjoying delicious artisanal wines at the beautiful Négociant Winery in Hillcrest. 3 Ways to Meet People • Ice Breakers - Organized group activities to warm up the room and get everyone talking. • Mini-Dates - 10 one-on-one conversations, just long enough to feel a spark. • Open Social - Free mixing at the end of the night. Find your matches and keep it going. You choose your matches after the mini-dates and we share them only when it is mutual. If you do not get a match, do not sweat it. There is plenty of time to get to know the other guys during the open social. How the Night Works 6:30 PM: Check-in & Open Mingling Grab a drink, settle in, and meet the guys. 7:00 PM: Introductions & Ice Breakers We will kick things off together as a group to warm up our social skills. 7:30 PM: Mini-Date Rounds Rotate through 8 mini-dates, each just long enough to know if there is a spark. 8:30 PM: Open Social Rounds are done. Grab a glass, find your matches, and keep the night going. 9:30 PM: Closing Say goodnight and go home... or don't 😏 Tickets Early Bird - $25 Through December 3rd General Admission - $30 Through December 8th At the Door - $35 December 9th Good to Know 🗓 Wednesday, December 9 · 6:30 to 9:30 PM 📍 Négociant Winery, Hillcrest, San Diego 📱 Phones required for participation 🍷 Wine available for purchase 🎟 Capped at 44 attendees, this event will sell out! ✅ Gay and queer men ages 35-55 For more information on why we do age groupings and to provide feedback, please check out the link and survey below! https://forms.gle/5McZ8wK5sncHydHz7
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Details
- When
- Wed, Dec 9, 2026 · 6:30 PM (PST)
- Where
- Négociant Winery
- Address
- 1263 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103
- Price
- $28.52 +
- Genre
- Social Gatherings
Questions
- When is Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55)?
- Wed, Dec 9, 2026 at 6:30 PM PST.
- How much are tickets for Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55)?
- Tickets are $28.52 +.
- Where is Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55)?
- Négociant Winery, 1263 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, San Diego, CA.
- Where can I buy tickets for Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55)?
- Tickets are sold on Eventbrite. This page links straight to that listing; no tickets are sold here.
