A Workshop on Boundaries for Those in the Lifestyle

For couples, singles, and the curious: learn how to build agreements that actually hold up when the room heats up. Here’s what nobody tells you when you walk into the lifestyle: trust isn’t built on the yeses. It’s built on the no’s that get honored. This workshop is for couples, singles, throuples, and the curious, anyone navigating ENM, the club, or open play who wants their agreements to actually hold up when things get real. We’ll talk about the difference between a true boundary and a faux one, how to negotiate before the room heats up, why pausing before you answer is a power move, and how to tell when “flirting” needs to become a direct conversation. We’ll cover code words, renegotiation, and the part people skip: you’re allowed to revoke a yes, even one you meant. That “yeah, but no, but yeah” feeling in your body is information. Use it. No judgment, no shame, no one getting called out. Just real stories, honest conversation, and tools you’ll use the next time you walk into the room. Classy, not clinical. Explicit, not crude. 21+.